Compared to instant, "Change-Your-Life-In-7-Days" fast food, this book is a seven course meal: rich, flavorful and thought-provoking (avoid consuming it all at once!). It doesn't give you superficial tricks that fall apart when faced with reality. It teaches you skills to recognize and deal with complex emotions in everyday situations. It helps you recognize and change chronic emotional patterns and self-sabotage. Some readers have described it as an "operating manual that should come with life" which they keep referring to, especially in times of stress and confusion. Includes many practical exercises.